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A coach on infidelity named 12 signs that your partner is cheating on you. How to expose a liar
Albert Arnaiz, an infidelity expert from Barcelona, named 12 signs that your significant other is cheating on you. In the past, the specialist had 100 affairs on the side, being in a serious relationship at the time.
Now, Arnaiz aims to warn women against cheaters, writes the Daily Mail. The Spaniard even wrote his own book titled "How to be unfaithful without getting caught."
1. You see a slight change in his behavior with gadgets
An attentive spouse should check that they always face the door when on the phone when you enter the room. This is done to hide what is on the screen. Or maybe he started turning off his smartwatch at strange times, which records his physical activity and location.
2. He deactivated his Google Maps history
Arnaiz says, most men are careless with technology or make mistakes often. Cheaters use several apps, but "don't know all the functions and features of each one." For example, in Google Maps, "most people don't know that there is a history and you can see on the map where your husband has been in the last three months." If he has deactivated it, why? And if not, how will he react when you ask to see it?
3. His car shines with cleanliness
The car is one of the places Arnaiz recommends for unpredictable sex. "If you share a car, it's a place your partner knows well, so any change in odor, any random hair can be a horrible find," he says. "If he usually cleans the car once a month and now he does it once a week, that's weird. If he suddenly starts buying air fresheners, that's also strange," the expert notes.
4. You find new clothes in a backpack
Arnaiz warns cheaters not to invest in a new wardrobe because it looks suspicious. But he admits that most people who cheat can't resist the vanity of buying nice outfits, so the expert suggests that they keep their clothes in a bag or backpack if necessary.
5. Suddenly he buys a gym membership
Habits often change during an affair. Among the mistakes is a sharp transition from a lazy to a super-healthy lifestyle. "They want to look good for their mistress, so they start exercising right away," says the Spaniard.
6. You've noticed that he often withdraws cash
Arnaiz advises clients to pay for anything related to affairs on the side in cash. A wallet left on the table with a large amount of cash inside is a possible red flag.
7. He started doing more household chores
Sometimes a man who doesn't like chores turns into Mr. Propper. It's guilt, says Arnaiz: "He doesn't feel good about himself and wants to be more helpful around the house."
8. He is tired and says he has insomnia
Being unfaithful is "mentally draining," says Arnaiz: "The brain wastes energy thinking about two parallel lives and needs to sleep better, take a nap, do some exercise, or take supplements." So, he suggests that the cheater should claim insomnia to compensate for his fatigue.
Some men can also become surprisingly talkative, says Arnaiz, "talking more about their work, hobbies, friends – anything to avoid thinking about what he's doing."
9. You fight less and have more sex
Arnaiz said: "It's normal. We fight less because he's happier."
10. He stops using his usual cologne
Arnaiz advises his clients not to wear cologne or perfume when they meet with mistresses. "The sense of smell is very sensitive," he says. "If you both wear perfume or cologne when kissing, cuddling, or having sex, your smells will mix. It's easy for your spouse or partner to notice this strange odor on you."
11. He is never available at lunchtime
Arnaiz believes that lunch is the best time to meet lovers. Even if you work in an office and have only 60 minutes, "you can eat in ten minutes and spend the rest of the time..."
12. He sees his friends more often
Arnaiz teaches his clients to tell their spouses: "I'm going out with friends next Friday." In reality, it's a cover story. "If you have a routine with friends or a hobby, use it to be unfaithful," he says.
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