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The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

How to recognize infidelity

No matter how much you want to hide the affair, it will still be noticed. Private investigator Aaron Bond of the British agency Bond Rees Private Investigations shared the four most common signs that a partner may be having lovers.

The agent told The Sun about these sometimes invisible "bells and whistles." All the "red flags" tend to be the same - a decrease or increase in attention to your significant other.

The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

1. Changes in phone behavior

In a healthy relationship, it's normal to know your partner's smartphone passwords. But if they suddenly change, and your significant other hides the content of notifications, you should pay attention.

"If your partner starts changing their passwords, carries their phone everywhere with them, even at home, or tries to avoid contact with the smartphone when you ask them to use it, this could be a sign of infidelity," the detective emphasized.

He added that if the phone is lying with the screen down when not in use, it is also worth paying attention to.

The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

2. They talk less about their day

When a partner cheats, they start avoiding their significant other, this may be due to guilt or because it's easier for them to lie, writes The Sun.

"If you feel that your partner has suddenly started avoiding you and no longer wants to spend time with you or stops talking about their day, then this is another red flag. This happens because cheaters are afraid of being caught," Aaron emphasized.

The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

3. Changes in sex drive

A partner's libido can change dramatically if there are no other reasons for it. He may either lose interest altogether or become insatiable in an attempt to disguise the act.

"Cheaters often have less sex at home because they spend time with others, but sometimes it can be the other way around. This is because they feel guilty and use the tactic of increasing the amount of sex to hide their infidelity. You may also notice that your partner will start introducing something new into your intimate life that wasn't there before," the detective said.

The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

4. Negative attitude towards the partner

According to Bond, stress often causes cheaters to get angry at their partners because they know that what they did was wrong, and this, in turn, causes tension inside.

"To get rid of the anger they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and start criticizing."

The private detective named four signs that indicate an affair

Of course, such situations can also occur for other reasons that are not related to the presence of lovers. Therefore, the first thing you should do is discuss changes in your partner's behavior with them.

Earlier, OBOZ.UA wrote about 8 reasons that indicate toxicity and why you shouldn't try to change such people.

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