Is it possible to learn femininity? Famous Ukrainian designer explains the issue

Femininity is a rather complex concept. It cannot be described in a nutshell, whether it is elegance in clothing, perfume, makeup, a beautiful gait, the ability to love, or anything else. Indeed, many modern women do not consider themselves feminine at all. And this is very sad.

I am sure that there are three main components that form the sense of femininity. Mother's upbringing, the views of other women, and the views of loving men.

A mother is the only person who forms the basis of femininity, as a father forms the basis of masculinity for his son. The main thing a mother can do to foster femininity in her daughter is to be a woman herself. This is what the girl believes. There is no perfect upbringing, just like there are no perfect people. Nevertheless, if you are a mother and you are raising a daughter, keep in mind that she will draw femininity from you.

A woman among women. Sisters, girlfriends, models and famous actresses: they inspire, making you want to try something new. Women learn from each other, exchange impressions, express their feelings, attitude to their bodies and perception of themselves... But most importantly, it is worth drawing inspiration from other women. You should not be shy about it because this is the process that maintains femininity in the world.

Men are the world in which femininity is sharpened and generally finds "practical application". It is hard to deny this. Sexual experience is another key to realizing one's femininity. A woman feels that another person recognizes her in all her physical and emotional uniqueness. But this does not mean that you have to live your whole life in pursuit of the opposite sex. Enjoy yourself, live to your heart's content and develop. That's what attracts men.

In my opinion, the most important thing is to understand that femininity does not float somewhere in the clouds or in your apartment, it is not reflected in the mirror and does not appear on the covers of magazines. It is inside you. And that's it. If you relax and truly feel feminine, you will become so in the eyes of others.

What do you think about this? Where should we look for the root of femininity?