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3 questions you should never ask a woman: the relationships will be ruined

Yulia PoteriankoLife
Personal boundaries must not be violated

Tactlessness and a habit of not minding your own business can ruin even the best first impression. That's why it's important to show all the courtesy and attention you can on a date. Moreover, this trait will be highly valued even after the dating period. Where to start? For example, with a cheat sheet with a list of questions you shouldn't ask a woman.

As OBOZREVATEL found out, psychologists call these and similar questions a gross violation of personal boundaries. This is a manifestation of disrespect, which is one of the biggest obstacles to building any kind of relationships, not just romantic ones.

Don't you think you should change your clothes?

You can't know exactly how much time and effort a woman spent getting ready for a date or a friendly meeting with you. Or maybe it's the other way around: she did her best to be on time and sacrificed a lot to see you for at least an hour that evening. Be grateful for the time you have together, not for the time spent preparing for the meeting, which can easily be ruined by an inappropriate question.

How can you eat so much?

How much a person eats is their own business. Maybe she was so busy all day that she didn't have time to eat a single crumb and is now catching up because she's already feeling badly hungry. Or maybe she is an athlete and is now gaining weight. Or maybe she was recently sick and needs to regain weight to gain strength. However, even if she just has a good appetite, it's no one's business but her own. After all, you don't feed on Sun's rays either.

Isn't it time for you to find someone?

A woman can have a million reasons not to waste time on a relationship that is visible to society. From banal fatigue or a traumatic experience in the past to having a secret love. She is under no obligation to tell you about these reasons. If she is happy on her own, then be happy for her. If not, why touch a sore point?

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