Six obvious signs that your marriage is doomed

American psychologist and divorce expert Sarah Woodward believes that there are 6 "red flags" that say you should break off a relationship. According to her, such catastrophic problems do not arise immediately, so they are difficult to notice.

The Sun reports the words of the expert, emphasizing that there is no need to fight for a marriage in which there is psychological and physical violence. Sarah also emphasized that to avoid a catastrophe, sometimes it is even worth shouting at your partner (to see the photo, scroll to the bottom of the page).

Financial abuse

Domestic violence can take many forms, including physical or emotional abuse, manipulation, or jealousy. However, financial control should not be underestimated.

This can be checking bank statements, checks, and even a joint card. If one of the partners does not like to report their financial expenses and the other does not hear them, the relationship should be ended.

Social media control

One of the warning signs is a total control of messengers and mail. If the marriage is bursting at the seams, the first sign will be distrust and jealousy.

It's worth considering whether you need a person in your life who controls loyalty instead of becoming better and not doubting yourself and your partner.

Complete absence of quarrels

Misunderstandings and expressions of emotions mean that both partners care about their future together. At this stage, it is still possible to hear the other half and understand what exactly is going wrong.

However, when there is no longer any desire to even talk, then conflict resolution is out of the question. Sometimes, in this period, it may seem that the relationship has reached a new level, but most likely, it no longer exists for one of the lovers.

No talking about desires and plans

Over time, everyone improves, and their outlook and plans for the future change. You should always discuss your new thoughts and dreams with your partner because then they can try to move in a common direction.

If the vision of the future life does not coincide and the spouses are silent about it in order to "keep the peace" and not provoke a divorce, then sooner or later, it will catch up with them.

Friends come first

There are times when the advice and help of friends is essential. However, if a phone call to a friend seems to be more effective than a phone call to your significant other every time you have a good opportunity, it's a bad sign.

A couple must respect each other and be on the same intellectual and emotional level for the relationship to be harmonious. If a partner seems to be insufficiently interested or competent in every problem, it's time to end the relationship.

Children ask if you are happy

Children, who look up to and learn from their parents, feel misunderstandings and tension in the family the most. If you hold on to marriage solely for the sake of raising your children in a full family, you can set them the wrong example of family relationships.